How Is This Year Going To Be Different For You?

As a New Year dawns and we gear up for a (hopefully) happy and productive 2019, what plans have you put in place to get there?
What are you going to do differently at work, to get the most out of your career and professional life and to be the happiest and most effective you that you and can be? What goal-setting have you done?
How was your personal life in 2018?
Was it fulfilled and happy or fraught with difficulties and relationship challenges?
And what are you going to do differently this year to make sure your home life works in 2019 and is a place of family happiness and health for you?
You may ask why am I talking about your personal life in a business column?
It’s simple. You can’t
separate you, a professional person – from you at home and in the village.
We are all one person.
If we are unhappy at home, it affects our working career.
If work does not make you happy, it’s impossible for it not to affect you at home.
80 per cent Happiness Across your Whole Life
To really prosper and thrive in all areas of your life, you must be content across all.
If you aren’t happy at work but are at home, then some may argue that you’re only 50 per cent happy.
If you struggle at home but work’s good, then you’re only 50 per cent happy. Obviously, we can’t be happy all day every day, because life’s just not like that.
But a goal is to strive for 80 per cent happiness across our life.
Empowerment in the workplace or to reduce workplace stress may be your goals but they need to be specific to achieve them.
Happiness at Work
Satisfaction at work means different things to different people, but common themes people tell me are:
- They enjoy their work
- They enjoy the people with whom they work
- They enjoy working for their leader
- They find the work stimulating and different
- They like that they don’t do a re petitive job
- They appreciate being told they are doing a good job
- They feel part of something big ger than themselves
People leave their direct manager, not the Organisation
Research tells us repeatedly that people don’t leave a company if they like it.
They walk out the door because of their Manager who does not support them, micro-manages, don’t support or grow them, is rude to them and ‘makes their life hell.’
- Employees:
It’s a New Year and if you’ve been struggling with a less than great boss for a while, either raise your concerns or change jobs.
Get out.
It’s not worth being unhappy and struggling day in and day out with an incompetent boss.
Your health is more important than anything.
Find a new boss who is more deserving of you.
- Leaders:
If you are the difficult boss, would you know it?
Do you reflect enough to think about how you treat your staff and most importantly, do something about it?
Some may, most don’t.
If your team is not performing well, and did not for most of last year, what goals do you have to change this?
If you don’t have any, let’s create them now
- Organisations:
What new ways of working do you want within your ranks?
How will you improve the culture in your company and what plans and strategies can you implement to change the way things are now?
Why Goals are important in your life
There has been much research about goals, why they are important and how they impact our lives.
According to the Peak Performance Centre, goals:
- Provide direction, giving us a way forward and a firm destina tion
- Give us a clear focus on what’s important to us
- Provide us with clarity in the decisions we make
- Give us control over our future
- Provide us with motivation to achieve something important to us
- Give us personal satisfaction when we achieve things we dream of doing
- Provide us with a sense of pur pose in our life
What about you?
What goals do you want to achieve this year?
Personal Life
What is working well?
Where is our greatest difficulty at home or personal life?
How long has it been this way?
What have you tried to change it? What has worked and what has not?
- What goals do you have to im prove the situation?
- When and how will you do that?
Professional Life
What is working well?
What is the one thing you would like to improve at work?
Have you tried to resolve or improve it before and if so, how?
- What goals do you have to im prove the situation? Write them down
- When and how will you do that?
Balance – Four parts of our lives where we need balance and happiness to live a great life
To live well, we need to look after all aspects of our lives, of which there are four, according to author Steven Covey.
Look at Table 1, above and score yourself out of 10 (highest) for each.
- Once completed, decide which are your two lowest scores?
- What action plans will you put in place to improve them in 2019?
Goals without firm action plans are just Dreams
You can have all the thoughts and dreams you want in your business and in your career.
You can talk about them to others and even describe what you are going to do in detail. The fact is that unless you ACT on the things you want in life, it’s just talk. Ideas. Thoughts. Nothing more.
SMART Goals – The Formula
Note the goals above follow the SMART Formula – smart, measurable, achievable, realistic and time-bound. Do more research on the internet about them?
Look forward to a prosperous year, wonderful career and great life
Life is what you make of it. When challenges arise, be creating in finding solutions.
If one way doesn’t work, try another. There is no point in rolling over. Keep moving forward.
You have much to live for in your career, your business, your life. Make 2019 the best year ever.
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