Gender, Age Never a Barrier For Humble Sokoilagi

Never let gender or age be a barrier in setting milestone achievements for yourself, your family and country.

These were the sentiments shared by the Republic of the Republic of Fiji Military Forces Naval Division midshipwoman Mereseini Sokoilagi.

The 24-year-old Naloto, Verata, Tailevu lass is the first female from the Fiji Navy to graduate from an Officer Training establishment internationally following her graduation from the Devonport Naval Base in Auckland, New Zealand on June 15, 2019.

Currently a Midshipwoman officer under training at the Republic of Fiji Navy, Sokoilagi says humility and having the heart of service for her country was the driving force in her latest achievements.

“I had a spiritual upbringing from my grandparents and all their teachings taught me humility, respect and to serve others with a good heart,” Ms Sokoilagi said

“These values have never departed from me and have helped me stay positive no matter how bad the situation,” she said

“I observed how they would always go out of their way to help those who came to ask anything from them, even though we were struggling ourselves.

“My parents taught me how things don’t come easy and that we have to work hard to get what we want instead of sitting and wishing for a genie.

“They worked hard in giving us the best education and even though we never had much we were able to get through together.”

Ms Sokoilagi said fond memories of her growing up include accompanying her grandparents for night fishing, collecting firewood, coconuts and going to the plantation to farm in the village.

Republic of the Fiji Military Forces Naval Division midshipwoman Mereseini Sokoilagi.

EMPOWERING YOUTHS AND WOMEN

Ms Sokoilagi said her journey continues to build her character as she has learnt not to give up too easily but to dance in the rain.

“There were lots of ups and downs. After I graduated from FNU, finding a vacant position was difficult and it tested my patience.

“I was on the verge of giving up when my aunt showed me of the Fiji Navy recruitment advertisement. At first, I was hesitant but she encouraged me saying that nothing was impossible for a young girl to also flourish in a male dominated field. So, I took on the challenge.”

Ms Sokoilagi said the Fiji Navy has provided her with opportunities and rewarding experiences and she encourages other women to take up these roles in the male dominated sector.

“The journey has been a disciplining and self-discovering journey and some of the things we thought we were never physically capable of doing, we have pushed ourselves to achieve it.

“We need to challenge and constantly prove ourselves that we can also do the work that man do. Never give up. Do not let small barriers along the way hinder your crossing that finishing tape. Though you may not be the smartest, strongest or the fittest, always give your 101 per cent.”

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