'Protect Children, Stop Violence'

"We cannot force children to learn. Every child develops at their own pace and learns according to their individual abilities."

Tuesday 07 January 2025 | 09:14

Counsellor Mohenesh Singh, with niece Nimisha Singh.

Counsellor Mohenesh Singh, with niece Nimisha Singh.

Children in Fiji live under a constitution that upholds their rights, equality, and dignity, says Mohenesh Singh, Counsellor and Founder of the Healing Hands Foundation.

Mr Singh emphasised that protect­ing children from violence, exploita­tion, and abuse is not only a moral duty but also a legal obligation en­shrined in the Child Protection Pol­icy and the Social Welfare Act 2010.

Reacting to a recent social media video showing a father inflicting vi­olence on his children while teach­ing them numbers, Mr Singh said such behaviour was shocking and unacceptable.

"Any form of abuse against chil­dren has zero tolerance under the law," he said.

"We cannot force children to learn. Every child develops at their own pace and learns according to their individual abilities."

Mr Singh lamented the persistence of a culture where violence is used to assert control.

"It is sad to see that some still be­lieve inflicting harm is the way to get things done," he said.

Highlighting the importance of a positive learning environment, Mr Singh explained that children thrive when they feel involved, comfort­able, and supported in their educa­tion.

He is urging the Government to increase awareness of positive par­enting skills, particularly for young parents.

"When applying for a driving li­cence, people undergo assessments to become better drivers.

"Similarly, young couples should participate in family life train­ing and positive parenting pro­grammes," he suggested.

Mr Singh stressed that parent­ing requires immense patience and commitment.

"It is easy to bring a child into this world, but it takes effort and love to provide the care they need. So please, stop hurting them," he said.

He recommended child-friendly teaching methods, such as using number songs, sand writing, and games, to foster better learning ex­periences.

The Healing Hands Foundation remains committed to supporting government initiatives that pro­mote positive parenting and child counselling.

"We must create critical thinkers, and this can only happen in safe, supportive, and child-friendly envi­ronments," Mr Singh said.

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