Diwali lights the way for unity
Mere Tikaram’s story highlights how love and respect bridge beliefs, as Fijians celebrate the Festival of Light.
Monday 20 October 2025 | 23:30
From left: Havish Tikaram, 11, Mere Tikaram, Michelle Tikaram, 12, and Thaswika Sharma, 6, in Vugalei, Lami.
Photo: Leon Lord
"My message to the people of Fiji is simple but powerful: let us continue to share love, respect, and peace with one another—regardless of ethnicity, beliefs, age, or skin colour."
These heartfelt words echo the essence of Diwali for many Fijians, as the nation celebrates the ‘Festival of Light’ today.
It’s a time not only to light diyas and share sweets, but to rekindle the spirit of togetherness across communities.
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For the Tikaram family living in Lami, the path to unity has also been one of embracing different cultures and beliefs.
Mere Tikaram, who transitioned into Hindu traditions after marrying husband, Rahul Tikaram 12 years ago, shares how Diwali became more than a religious event—it became part of her identity.
“At first, Hinduism was something very new and different for me. It took time to understand the traditions, beliefs, and way of life. But with the love and respect I have for my husband, the transition became a meaningful journey rather than a challenge,” Ms Tikaram said.
“What truly made it worthwhile was seeing the happiness in my children—it brings me peace and contentment knowing they are growing up with values from both sides of their heritage.
“While I’ve embraced many aspects of Hinduism, I still hold on to the beliefs I was born with. It’s a balance that keeps me grounded and respectful of both faiths.”
Reflection
She reflects on how her personal values helped her bridge two worlds.
“For me, the transition was easier than I expected because I’ve always lived by a simple motto: Respect and Love—not just for my family, but for others as well. Respecting different beliefs, cultures, and ways of life has always been important to me,” she said.
“With love for my husband and children, and respect for the faith and values around me, adapting to Hinduism became a meaningful journey.”
Embracing a new religion or path, she says does not mean letting go of ones identity—it simply means growing in understanding, love, and mutual respect.
“Today, let’s celebrate not just with lights and sweets, but with open hearts and by spreading unity, kindness, and understanding across our beautiful nation and beyond.”
For this family, Diwali represents more than tradition, it marks a deeply personal journey of love, growth, and connection.
At the heart of their celebration is a shared devotion to Goddess Lakshmi and a prayer for a brighter tomorrow.
“Most importantly, Diwali is about welcoming Goddess Lakshmi into our homes and hearts, and praying for peace, happiness, and prosperity in every individual’s life. It’s a festival that reminds us of the power of unity, renewal, and hope.”
Today, their plans remain rooted in simplicity, prayer, and shared joy.
“Our Diwali today is centered around family, prayer, and togetherness. We will begin with a special family prayer at home, which is very important to us.”
“It’s a time to reflect, reconnect, and celebrate the light of love, peace, and unity.”
For their children, it’s the magic of the moment that matters most.
“One of the most special memories I have of past Diwalis is simply seeing the joy in my children’s faces as they helped decorate the house with diyas, rangoli, and colourful lights,” Ms Tikaram said.
“There’s something truly magical about how the entire home feels alive during Diwali filled with laughter, the aroma of sweets, and the warmth of family.”
And in the spirit of Fiji’s multicultural harmony, Diwali extends far beyond religion, it becomes a festival of community.
As lights glow across the islands, families like the Tikarams remind us that Diwali is not just about tradition—it’s about the values that bind us: love, respect, and unity.
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