Fear stops elderly victims from reporting family abuse

Fear of retaliation is preventing many elderly Fijians from reporting abuse by their own families, with some also being denied access to their Government welfare payments.

The concerns were raised during the Nadi Senior Citizens Charitable Trust meeting at the Nadi Civic Centre today.

Trustee Tota Ram, 70, said many older people privately disclosed mistreatment but were too frightened to seek help.

"We have seen that many elderly people are ill-treated by their children and grandchildren. They receive government welfare assistance, but it does not go to them; instead, it is used by their children and grandchildren," Mr Ram said.

He said many victims confided in the trust but refused to report the abuse because they feared harsher treatment when they returned home.

"Unfortunately, the elderly do not stand up or come forward to voice their concerns and that is the main problem.

"They tell us what is happening, but when we encourage them to come forward and speak out, they refuse. They are afraid that if they do, when they return home, they will face worse treatment."

Mr Ram urged older people to safeguard their finances and assets.

"Your money is your money. Don't give your property to your children while you are still in good health. Keep it for yourself."

He also said changing family values and increasing dependence on mobile phones were weakening relationships between generations, while a lack of parental guidance was contributing to wider social problems, including drug use among young people.

The trust plans to establish a senior citizens home in Nadi to provide care for elderly people who are mistreated or have no one to look after them.

Founder and president Krishna Murti, 70, said the organisation, established in 2010, continued to advocate for elderly people whose concerns often went unheard.

The trust is also encouraging younger volunteers and people from all communities to join as members.

The next meeting will be held on August 26.